Tuesday, February 23, 2016

Having a perfect meal

Going through a time where stress is so common, we hardly get to meet our friends, family and relatives, basically you miss the company of those who you love and those who love you. We tend to care more about the cause of stress than anything else.

For me, I am just occupied with preparation for exams and various other problems, I hardly communicate with my own family. It is not that my family helps me reduce my stress, it is a miracle if they don't increase it. Basic relationships gets destructed due to a lot of issues and due dates.

What brings all the broken relationships back to normal is nothing but food. Family dinners brings us all to this one table, next to each other. It gives us the chance to be together. I meet my dad once a day at the dining table and it really makes my day. No mater what feuds or disagreements we have, nothing works in the table.

Eating food all alone with no one that you care about beside you is nothing but a curse. Eating alone is not even thrilling or fun no mater what you eat.
The fun while eating even th cheapest food with you friends is no match for all the food you can get to eat being alone.

Food is a tool that strenghtens relationships.
Recently, I read an article how dinner dates strenghten relationship (dating is haram though :p), it has been found that it not only is fun but helps you psycholigically. If one can watch another eat, there is nothing more required to prove how strong a person is when being with another.

Food is a miracle, blessing that can unite families, friends and find people that turn out to be more than you expect them to be (like me)!

Until next time
-Abubakr Sajith